November 14, 2011

Kemuliaan diberikan kepada para ibu².

1. Dua rakaat solat wanita yang hamil lebih baik dari 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil.
2. Wanita yang hamil dapat pahala puasa disiang hari & pahala ibadat dimalam hari.
3. Wanita yang bersalin dapat pahala 70 thn solat & puasa serta setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya, Allah bagi satu pahala haji.


4. Sekiranya wanita meninggal dunia dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin ia dikira sebagai mati syahid. …
5. Wanita yang beri minum susu badannya kepad anaknya akan dapat 1 pahala daripada tiap titik susu yang diberikannya.
6. Wanita yang beri minum susu badannya kepad anaknya yang menangis maka Allah beri pahala satu tahun pahala solat & puasa.
7. Kalau wanita menyusui anaknya hingga cukup tempoh 2 setengah tahun, maka malaikat dilangit khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajib baginya.
8. Seorang ibu yang menghabiskan masa malamnya dengan tidur yang tidak selesa kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit dapat pahala seperti membebaskan 20 orang hamba.


9. Wanita yang tidak cukup tidur pada malam hari kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan di ampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya & bila dia hiburkan hati anaknya Allah beri 12 tahun pahala ibadat

November 12, 2011

Forever and always

She’s sitting at the table, the hours get later
He was supposed to be here
She’s sure he would have called
She waits a little longer, there’s no one in the driveway
No one’s said they seen him
Why, is something wrong?
She looks back to the window
Suddenly the phone rings
A voice says somethings happened
That she should come right now
Her mind goes to December
She thinks of when he asked her
He bent down on his knees first
And he said

I, I want you forever, forever and always
Through the good and the bad and the ugly
We’ll grow old together
Forever and always

She pulls up to the entrance
She walks right to the front desk
They lead her down a million halls a maze that’s never ending
They talk about what happened but she can barely hear them
She tries to keep a straight face as she walks into the room
She sits by his bedside, holds his hand too tight
They talk about the kids they’re gonna have and the good life
The house on the hillside, where they would stay

Stay, there forever, forever and always
Through the good and the bad and the ugly
We’ll grow old together, and always remember
Whether rich or for poor or for better
We’ll still love each other, forever and always

Then she gets and idea and calls in the nurses
Brings up the chaplain and he says a couple versus
She borrows some rings from the couple next door
Everybody’s laughing as the tears fall on the floor
She looks into his eyes, and she says

I, I want you forever, forever and always
Through the good and the bad and the ugly
We’ll grow old together, and always remember
Whether happy or sad or whatever
We’ll still love each other, forever and always
Forever and always, forever and always

She finishes the vows but his beeps are getting so low
His voice is almost too low
As he says, I love you forever, forever and always
Please just remember even if I’m not there
I’ll always love you, forever and always




P/s :
Baby, I love you always and ever. 

Wish you were here

I can be tough
I can be strong
But with you, It's not like that at all

Theres a girl who gives a shit
Behind this wall
You just walk through it

And I remember all those crazy thing you said
You left them running through my head
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

All those crazy things we did
Didn't think about it just went with it
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Here, Here, Here
I wish you were here

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Near, Near, Near
I wish you were here.

I love the way you are
It's who I am don't have to try hard
We always say, Say like it is
And the truth is that I really miss

All those crazy thing you said
You left them running through my head
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

All those crazy things we did
Didn't think about it just went with it
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Here, Here, Here
I wish you were here

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Near, Near, Near
I wish you were here.

No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go
Let go, Oh, Oh,

No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go
Let go, Let go, Let go...

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Here, Here, Here
I wish you were here

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Near, Near, Near
I wish you were here


Note :
Sumpah kengkawan aku rindu sangat dengan kamo.  Teringat kesah lama kita buat aku nanges. Huwaa! 
Come here darlingss my apple pie.  Kita dah banyak kenangan bersama. almost 7 years we're together. 

November 09, 2011

Penceraian & keadilan

The reason most couples get divorced is not because they get bored with each other. It's because when you're dating, you pretend to be someone you're not.  And there's only so long you can hold that off.


Banyak penceraian dah yang kita dengar sana sini. Baik orang kenamaan, orang kebiasaan ada yang dah tua bangka pun ada.  Memang betul jodoh ajal maut semua nya ditangan Allah.  Tapi sebagai manusia yang diciptakan oleh Allah untuk kita sentiasa mengelakkan perkara yang tidak elok berlaku.  Penceraiaan sebenarnya banyak memberikan negatif buruk baik untuk kita, anak dan orang sekeliling.  

Bukan semua wanita inginkan title janda sekiranya mereka boleh sentiasa memiliki kebahagiaan dari orang tersayang.  Suami yang sepatutnya menjadi pelindung seharusnya bijak mempertahankan rumahtangga.  Dan seharusnya suamilah yang mendidik isteri agar kedua-duanya dapat memperolehi syurga yang menjadi idaman semua mahkluk. 

Sejak akhir² ini, kita akan dengar banyak cerita tentang isteri yang memohon cerai dan dibawa ke mahkamah.  Dan dari situ banyak tanggapan buruk dilemparkan kepada kaum isteri.  Salahkah mereka? sedangkan semua tak tahu cerita disebalik itu.  Penderaan, pencabulan, keganasan perlukah semua itu kaum isteri menanggungnya? Benar isteri seharuskan menjadi lebih tabah dan sabar. Tapi sampai nyawa tergadai pun harus diperlihatkan semua itu kah? Dimana tanggungjawab suami untuk melindungi kaum wanita? anak kandung sendiri?

Benar si suami ada hak atas lafaz cerai tapi adilkah sekiranya dia menyeksa batin dan jiwa seorang isteri yang taat setia kepadanya? yang sentiasa susah dan senang dengan dia? yang melahirkan zuriatnya tanpa sedikitpun rungutan? Bolehkah dia senang² menyeksa dan menghina isteri itu? Dunia membutakan semuanya.

Suami merungut isterinya buruk, tidak mengancam tapi bukankah semasa bercinta dulu, semuanya indah hingga cakap kalau boleh nak hidup sampai tua sesama. Suami cakap isteri tak pandai masak yang sesedap mengikut trend tapi pernahkah dia buka peti ais dan ke dapur dan lihat apa bahan yang tinggal untuk dimasak? Isteri tetap masakkan makanan untuk santapan si suami walaupun dia sendiri pun mengikat perut takut sekiranya dia makan, makanan akan habis. Runggutan tidak berhenti disitu, katanya pula isteri pemalas bila si suami mengarahkan isteri mengambil minuman untuk dia sedangkan minuman sudah tersedia tapi jauh darinya tak sampai 6 tapak. Layakkah suami dipanggil khalifah dan benarkah dia mampu menjadi pembimbing? Layakkah? 

Happiest couples in the world, never have the same ‘NATURE’.
They just have the best ‘UNDERSTANDING, of their ‘DIFFERENCES’